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My (21M) mother (50F) and little brother (12M) have all been victims of my narcissistic father’s abuse and the fallout is eating us alive. I have an extremely close relationship with both of them and we want to be together and be happy but his chokehold on us is so strong. For context, we haven’t lived with my narc father for over a year but the scars we’ve been left with are so debilitating and literally ruining our lives. We’re struggling financially and it feels like we can’t do anything without him b/c of how long we depended on him. We make plans to sell our clothes, find new jobs, budget, find a new place to live, address our health issues etc etc and instead of being optimistic in the face of all of these things we just feel so helpless.It feels like the second we start self-actualizing his voice in our heads just comes right back to stifle us. His presence is inescapable. My mother has nightmares every day right before she wakes up of him coming home. My brother and I both have so much shame and anger leftover from years of constant psychological abuse that is suffocating us. We can’t even afford to see our therapists right now, my mom goes to a local women’s center for therapy but everything just feels so pointless and there’s a million other things screaming for our attention that everything just feels impossible and nothing ends up getting done. We have until august to find a new place to live and make enough money to afford it. God this fucking sucks.
I’m asking for someone who successfully got themselves out of the hole of pain, anger, regret, and depression… how the hell did you do it? I feel a sense of repsonsibility to save my family from this situation, but how can I do that if I’m also still so traumatized that even brushing my teeth feels impossible? We need to take the leap. Any help is appreciated feel free to PM me.

Please does anyone have a copy of "Novick & Morrow's Public Health Administration: Principles for Population-Based Management, 4th edition, ISBN:9781284213980" to share?
Thanks.
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To those that also suffer from mental illness, like depression/anxiety, how do you find the will to work out when things get hard mentally? I know how exercise is important for mental health, but I've been struggling to go to the gym. I struggle to get out of bed most days, let alone get up for a simple exercise like a walk outside. Can someone share tips to help you find motivation??

Hi, I've got a lvl 55 Sorc on world tier 3 and I've just got a few general questions.

1. Are glyphs Reusable? I'm just starting to figure out how the paragon board works and I'm wondering if I put a glyph in a node and then respec do I lose the glyph? Can you only have 1 of each glyph?
   
2. Do titles share between characters? Like for example if I unlock the titles "Legendary" and "Sorceror" on my Sorc could I then use them on a Druid if I wanted?
   
3. Are the PVP unlocks shared between characters? If I buy the PVP mount and mount armor can I use those on other chars or do I have to unlock on each one?
   
4. Are transmogs unlocked between characters? What about PVP transmogs, like if I buy the PVP transmogs do I have to do that for each character?
   

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I want to rage-slap the person who said it, but since I am not a violent person, I am just currently stewing. Breathing and trying to dark humor myself into a better mood.
ugh. like do they even understand the implications of those words coming out of their damn mouth? Do normal people just bypass a whole bunch of their thinky parts and say random useless things and expect everything to be fine because life was fine for them ?
When people say things like that, all I understand is no one really gives a flying fudge about child welfare or mental health.

TLDR; My lease requires me to pay 2 additional months worth of rent for failure to give 60 days move-out notice, but I believe the building has been in violation of the lease for the past 7 months for neglecting a repair necessary for my safety.
I am renting an apartment in the state of Michigan, with a lease that expires at the end of this month (6/30). I failed to give notice of my intention to vacate before 5/1 (60 days) as required in my lease. Since I did not inform the property company until after 6/1, I am being required to pay two additional months of rent and utilities after move-out for the company’s supposed lost income from not being able to market the unit early enough.
I’m aware that I signed the lease and this was my responsibility. However, I have been looking the other way on a safety concern that I believe is in violation of the landlord’s responsibilities as stated in my lease, and because of that would like to know if I have the grounds to challenge this payment.
The apartments in this building are two story lofts, with a long balcony / hallway shared by all units on the upper level that can be accessed through an outdoor set of stairs. There is a door with a keypad to access the balcony area, though other tenants tend to prop it open, so realistically anyone could get up there. In November (7 months ago) I returned home late at night and realized I did not have my keys. I remembered the lockout policy on the lease was basically “it’s not our problem”, so after failing to get in through windows or get ahold of the leasing office, a neighboring tenant offered to kick in the upper door so i would not freeze and i accepted. The next day I explained the situation in person to the building manager, and of course said I would pay for the damages. I asked if I needed to file a maintenance request, to which she replied no, the maintenance people had already been informed. The door was never fixed. I ended up making a makeshift barricade out of fear for my safety while i waited for the repair, but I do not think my efforts would have prevented anyone from getting in. It is clear that the door is broken which i feel makes me a visible target for a break in.
At the end of January, the manager contacted me to inform me it would be $80 to fix the door. I paid it promptly, hoping this meant it would finally be fixed, but it never was —nobody ever even came by to LOOK at it. (I work from home almost every day so I didn’t simply miss them)
I believe this safety concern violates the following landlord obligations outlined in the lease:
“A. Comply with the requirements of all applicable building, housing, health and safety codes that materially affect health and safety; including smoke detectors. B. Make all repairs and do whatever is reasonably necessary to put and keep the Premises in a fit and habitable condition; C. Keep all common areas of the Premises in a safe and sanitary condition”
Any advice on whether this could be used to help me would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

I'm a 22y/o student living with my mom, who doesn't charge me rent for living with her as long as I'm in college (she can't afford to pay for any of my classes, so in return she isn't making me pay rent as long as I'm able to get myself through school).
I live in San Joaquin County.
I attend a community college and they waive my class fees based on my mom's income.
I just started a new job and I'm capped at 20hwk according to the contract w/ the city I work for. My parents don't give me any money directly; they do provide me with insurance (dental + health) since I'm still under 26, as well as pay my car insurance. I give my father money directly for my phone bill every month.
My commute to my job and school eats at my wallet (gas takes up around 40% of each paycheck) and I buy most of my own food, unless my mom offers me some of the groceries she's bought. The rest of my paycheck goes to my own groceries. I can't afford to buy clothes for my new job and I can't afford school supplies for the summer (my college only gives me grant money during the fall semesters).
I went to apply for CalFresh and it wanted me to include my mother's pay stubs. I have no idea what the fuck i am doing. Can i apply for food stamps without my mom's information? I don't think she'll give it to me, but she also can't afford to give me any money to get me by without sacrificing herself.
Are any of these details even relevant? Does anyone have any advice or anything clearly stated about CA benefits? Some of the websites are just so intensive and confusing it feels like they've done it on purpose to deter people from applying.
Thanks in advance, and thank you for reading my confused rambling
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EDIT: Forgot to include what county i live in.

Sooo. Patch previews are out, and some of the changes seem to shift Specter into attacking your allies more often (tether spreads shroud skills, your attacks splash minorly) and for greater reward.
The part that seems... VERY disturbing is the fact that they removed the alac gen from Wells?? Which, I know, wasnt an ideal gameplay (put your wells and do nothing), but there doesnt seem to be a replacement? No other boons can get generated.
Dont misunderstand, I like it being more engaging support-y, but supports historically also granted lots of boons... Specter doesnt give a whole lot of boons.
Am I missing something? Ill be checking out the stream, but the notes dont reflect any of it.

I have an extremely close relationship with both of them and we want to be together and be happy but his chokehold on us is so strong. For context, we haven’t lived with my narc father for over a year but the scars we’ve been left with are so debilitating and literally ruining our lives. We’re struggling financially and it feels like we can’t do anything without him b/c of how long we depended on him. We make plans to sell our clothes, find new jobs, budget, find a new place to live, address our health issues etc etc and instead of being optimistic in the face of all of these things we just feel so helpless.It feels like the second we start self-actualizing his voice in our heads just comes right back to stifle us. His presence is inescapable. My mother has nightmares every day right before she wakes up of him coming home. My brother and I both have so much shame and anger leftover from years of constant psychological abuse that is suffocating us. We can’t even afford to see our therapists right now, my mom goes to a local women’s center for therapy but everything just feels so pointless and there’s a million other things screaming for our attention that everything just feels impossible and nothing ends up getting done.
I’m asking for someone who successfully got themselves out of the hole of pain, anger, regret, and depression… how the hell did you do it? I feel a sense of repsonsibility to save my family from this situation, but how can I do that if I’m also still so traumatized that even brushing my teeth feels impossible? We need to take the leap. Any help is appreciated feel free to PM me.

Seriously, this guy always invades during the most inconvenient times. Does he know when I have a lot of souls on me or when I’m about to reach a bonfire after going a long way?
I’m doing a sorcerer build and my HP is very low because I put most of my points in INT and some in END, ATT and ADP. This guy can 1 or 2 hit KO me while my 55 int great heavy soul arrow from my fully upgraded staff of wisdom takes away only a sliver of his health. And that too only when I land one, because most of the time he rolls through the spells. He has a lot of HP.
Checked the wiki and it said this guy is resistant towards magic, lightning, dark and fire. Wtf Should have a poison weapon especially for him.
Then, I switched to my +10 Rapier and it still takes forever to kill as he will roll through my attacks or will attack me immediately when I’m done coz he has a very high poise(?)
The one with the greatsword is easier than the one with the scythe (coz of the scythe’s moveset that instakills me) And also f**k the 180 spin jump attack. What’s even the point of rolling if they can track you and turn mid air. I’ve never managed to not get hit by that attack. (My AGL is around 95)
Anyway, that’s just a rant because I got frustrated when he invaded and killed me in the Old Iron King DLC just now. I lost a lot of souls.
I will git gud.
Damn, how do SL1 runners/no hit runners deal with this guy, I wonder.

The world bosses, visually are fantastic, but they feel super easy and not really rewarding to fight.... especially without the weekly cache. So my idea is to add mechanics to the world bosses to make them really rewarding but also create a greater risk of failure all around.
For Wandering death, visually this boss is amazing, but his attacks are very easy to dodge and his signature laser beam is just... bad and doesn't fit his theme. So I have ideas for 2 changes to his fight.
1st. Get rid of his laser, it makes no sense for his theme... it doesn't fit at all... instead, replace it with a death mist. The world boss starts channeling a mist that slowly drains all players health, after X amount of time, the entire arena explodes in a black mist and instantly kills everybody. Players need to stagger the boss to break his channel.
This is where the high risk/ high reward comes to play
2nd. At half HP, The boss creates two massive Hell Portals and enemies start pouring into the arena. Slowly at first, it gets faster the longer they remain open... the longer they remain open the harder the enemies become. 1st level, basic white mobs, 2nd, elites start to join in, and 3rd if you let the portal remain open long enough a boss gets summoned... now you have to fight the world boss and another boss, this boss is very difficult but drops very good rewards if killed.
Next is Avarice, The Gold Cursed
Visually I love this boss, he's so awesome. Attacks wise, he's fun the portal jumps keep you on your toes. However like all world bosses, I need be needs a high risk high reward mechanic.... here's my idea
At half HP, he opens his vault/chest and releases 10-15 treasure goblins the begin to run around the arena... your first thought is to probably kill them all right? Wrong. Here's the idea. When they first get released, their drop rates are significantly reduced of that of a normal treasure goblin... however as they run around the arena, they get bigger and bigger and bigger, think of the bomb enemies from Final Fantasy. The bigger they get, their drops get better and better, but they also get much much tankier as they grow in size so they're harder to kill.
Once they reach max size, they begin to glow, and you have X amount of time to kill them or else they will explode and do MASSIVE damage to the entire arena essentially wiping everybody. So the risk is, do you want to kill the goblins quickly and focus the boss down for the boss reward? Or do you want to let the goblins grow in size and try killing as many as you can for the rewards??
And risk being if every person dies at once meaning you took the risk and failed, and everybody died. The world boss unspawns and you lose out on the rewards all together.
I haven't thought of one for Ashava yet sadly.
Thoughts on this? What do you think? Cool or stupid?

I truly think that chemistry is just something that two (or more) people will have or will not. You know within a few messages whether or not someone is really worth your time or not. You spend some time talking to them, and the relationship grows organically with common interests and time spent.
Such are my thoughts on the matter anyway. Do you agree?
Whether in person or online, I find myself seeking new companionship. Someone to talk to, engage with, flirt with, pass the time with, maybe even more with. Is that person you? Let's find out.
I am an articulate, soft spoken nurse who is as nerdy as I am flirty. Intelligence, patience, empathy, and a good sense of humor are some of my stronger traits.
I'm happily partnered with a wonderful lady. If you're interested in pursuing a relationship that includes all of us, it's a possibility. If not, it's fine if it's just us. I'm happy to answer any questions or go into greater depth.

(22F) have been suffering from depressive episodes and panic disorder since I was 13. There were months, even years when i have been feeling very well, almost no sympthoms at all. But since a traumatic event last year, I have been prescribed meds for my panic attacks, and then antidepressants. Since I'm on the SSRIs at the beggining I felt very good and hopeful, but now, after like 7 months I feel worse than ever. I have gained a lot of weight, I really don't have any friends who would listen to me (i don't like to disturb them but I contact them when it's serious, and still they make jokes or don't even listen really). I actually have one best friend who's the only one I trust, yet he doesn't take me seriously, and he never has. I I have a loving family, but they seem to have grown tired of my episodes. Everybody thinks that I should just do something and it would go away. But the thing is – im in uni, have good grades, go to the gym, work 2 jobs and speak 6 languages. So I wouldn't rly say i'm lazy. Anyway, the thing about no one taking me seriously escalated. My therapist, who is always overworked, has forgotten our appointment last week. I have shown up but he had another patient and told me he forgot to write me in even thought we agreed on the time and everything. The patient he had has just come out of the psych ward, and it had me wondering, am I not sick enough? Maybe if I went to the ward people would care more about me. I mean I try my best to take care of myself and not rely on other people, but it would be nice to atleast know that somebody cares about me and my mental health as much as I care for others. I don't even need concrete advice, just a friend/bf to listen and comfort me. Am I selfish for wanting this?

I graduated from undergrad in 2020 and during that same year, I went to school for my Masters in Public Health. Exactly a year ago I graduated from my program and decided to take a gap year to focus on my mental health, travel, and mostly take time off after balancing school, covid, and multiple family losses in a row. Now that I am starting my job search, I feel discouraged, frustrated, and stuck.
I have many different interests including writing, marketing & communication, mental health, climate change, etc. Ideally, I would like to find a remote job to save money and take care of my family. However, when I reach out to organizations that focus on mental health, they tell me that they are looking for people with experience in well-known magazine sites instead of health backgrounds. On the other hand, when I look into marketing jobs in the health field, they mainly require marketing degrees, even though my degree required marketing courses or experience in Adobe. I have emailed 10+ mental health orgs that I am interested in and applied to 5+ jobs. I am not sure where to begin, what exactly I need to search for, and where to start. I am 25 too and I am starting to feel behind from all my peers and friends.
Any advice or encouragement would truly help😭

Hi guys.
Backstory, i work for health insurance. Part of my job is to forward and filter information from different departments. Sometimes I get too enthusiastic and try to go the extra mile, but I think I’m pissing my boss off and not sure if I should just do the bare minimum and keep to myself.
Anyways, today I got some information from another department and figured I’d let my boss know so that my colleagues could avoid making the same mistake I did. I sent this email to my boss in a haste (along with the attached information from the other department), and i feel like I rubbed her the wrong way more than anything.
Hi Rita , I wanted to bring this to your attention. There are claims in the system that are showing xx denial when they are actually denying for xx. They appear to be all within the same time frame and can easily be misunderstood as xx denials and escalated incorrectly. I’m not sure if this issue is already known and this is just how they were previously documented in the system but I thought I’d notify you so any uneccessary escalations to the x department could be avoided. Thanks
Now that I’m reading the email it almost sounds like I’m demanding her to do what I say which I’m totally not, just wanted to save us all the headache.
I’m picking up vibes that I’m not really the most popular in my department when I for the most part keep to myself and always try to go the extra mile.
Am I over thinking this? Should I apologize to my supervisor and try to fly under the radar from now and on?

TLDR; Bf wants me to cut off an old friend I slept with 11 years ago, because I told him to cut off a woman he was flirting with by the time he met me, who also physically assaulted me due to jealousy
My bf and I have been dating for 10 months now. Lately we have been dealing with consecutive issues with our relationship, fighting almost every 2 weeks but we're still trying to make things work.
I'm afraid I have started noticing abusive signs from him lately, and it has pushed me over the edge. I've been in an abusive relationship before and I'm very familiar with the cycle, and right now, I just want to jump off the ship. Part of me also wants to give this a try because relationships take work anyway. So I'm conflicted at the moment.
Yesterday he came with a previous issue of unfriending previous fubus or people we had sex with/interested in. For more info: My bf and I met at work, and by the time we started talking, he was also still flirting to this other girl (Samantha) at work. When we started getting serious, this girl physically assaulted me at one point out of jealousy. He didn't do anything about that despite letting him know what happened. I learned that they were still friends on Facebook which made me uncomfortable, so I asked him to remove her and it all started a fight. He wanted me to delete past fubus, so I deleted the peron he's concerned about. But he didn't delete this girl as quickly as I did. I didn't delete one fubu I had before, because he's a very old friend.
I thought it was such a ridiculous, manipulative thing to do. The person he wants me to remove out of my life now helped me with my mental health years ago, and we have been long time friends ever since. We only slept once or twice together, I don't remember but it was not a typical fubu relationship where you do it consistently. Anyways, that happened 11 years ago. The interaction we have now are through likes, and the last time we talked was back in 2020 until recently whrn I asked him about a relationship advice.
I think it's unfair he wants me to delete important people in my life that have been in my life for decades, even before I met him. I compared it to his relationship with Samantha whom she just met the same time he met me. She's a stranger, and I don't understand why she's important to her.
Anyways, this made me realized some things, but I might be being gaslighted again and I'm starting to doubt my thoughts again. I need solid advice and words to help me get through this. I want to escape the cycle of another abusive relationship but I also want to make it work. I think I'm really being stupid, I don't know.
Also, I'm sorry if my English is bad, it's not my native.

I'm looking for recommendations for a paid trustworthy professional who is sensitive to seniors' needs and mental health issues. Here are the details:
The homeowner is not a classic hoarder who is emotionally attached to garbage. She's overwhelmed by living in a house that's too big for her and by her own changing abilities. I live out of town and can only get in to help her periodically. Once we can get the place clean we are going to work on making it accessible, or moving her to a more accessible home.
The house is dirty -- there is rotting food in the kitchen and in the fridge, garbage and broken unusable appliances. It's sort of a chicken and egg situation where if we could get the appliances replaced (such as the dishwasher -- there are two busted ones in there) we could clean, but we need to clean to get the appliances out. If she could get to and use the sink there wouldn't be dirty dishes sitting in the living room, etc.
This is not a case of someone whose mental faculties are declining or who is dying. She is going to continue living here and living her life, but is paralyzed by the mess right now.
We want someone who will not throw away things that are not garbage -- once the actual filth and health hazards are dealt with and we have space to work, we will be dealing with her belongings. But her biggest fear is that a cleaner would come in and throw away things she still uses. That is related to childhood trauma and we need someone who will respect it and not throw away any actual belongings (even if they look old or broken -- those are things we can deal with ourselves).
We would need someone to throw away actual garbage and sort/organize non-garbage (clothes, paperwork, books, trinkets, tools, hobby supplies, pet supplies) so that she can go through it on an organized and sustainable basis.
Has anyone dealt with a similar situation, and found professional help they were happy with?

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