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What Does It Mean?

2012.08.15 21:35 sebablixa What Does It Mean?

For if you don't know what it means!

2019.04.27 16:50 graykuma36 What Does That Mean?

A community of misunderstanding

2014.08.04 18:01 9mace9 What does your dream mean?

If you had a dream you remembered, we'll answer what it means. If you put serious tag, we'll tell you what it could mean involving your life. If you leave out a serious tag, commentators make a story. Either about whats going on in your life or just staying with the theme of the dream.

2023.03.25 12:08 Positive_Term_4387 Irish wondering what winters are like in Wellington? Is 12-16 the norm? Does it get cold at all?

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2023.03.25 12:08 Bettybash What’s your exercise routine?

After a long day of work I get fatigued and can barely walk on the weekdays.. What do you like to do or can do to lose weight and strengthen yourself? And does starting a new routine eventually help with body pain?
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2023.03.25 12:07 ElectricalTie8325 The Kyrie trade has proven to be horrific.

Dallas is actually looking like a possibility to miss out on the play-in tournament. The team has 0 depth outside of the 2, but the 2 don't compliment each other enough to result in wins.
So not only do they lose a lot more, but as a casual, it was more fun watching Luka carry the team to .500 or above, and now it's just a bad mismatch. 0% chance Kyrie stays.
Can Dallas even get better around Luka? Or does Luka have to leave?
Some people have memed on Luka and used it as an opportunity to push their agenda as they didn't like him or his style of play, but if anything I think this experiment proved he was doing what he had to with the pieces to win. Dude got Kyrie, not a big, so I think most knew it wasn't going to work even if the duo is cool.
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2023.03.25 12:07 who_are_you123 My (22F) fiance (23M) never asks me any questions? Why is he even with me?

It didn't bother me before, but in the last few days I've taken notice. So I ask a bunch of questions everyday because I'm interested in him and want to know stuff. I ask abt his opinions, how his day went, things abt his life...
But he never asks me anything! I'm starting to think he doesn't care or isn't interested. I sometimes tell him stuff by myself, and he listens and comments but if I didn't, he wouldn't hear much about me. Maybe I stop telling about my stuff to see if he is interested and would ask me.
I know people are different and it's not okay to force someone to "ask questions" which seems silly anyway.. but I've been wondering. And since this is something that comes so naturally to me I find it weird how you can not ask questions..
My father (56M) once told me how he met my mom (56F) and she was delighted how for the first time someone was actually interested in what she had to say. But my dad said to me he was only interested in my mother's looks and how she was the most beautiful woman in the city. And didn't care what she had to say. Then I kind of notice this now as I look for the dynamic in them. I guess I'm sfraid of having that for me as well.
I've also been thinking if he rly respects me much.. I found out accidentally that his ex was apparently making a lot of money and quite successful but he says she was abusive and stuff and I'm not worried about any ex whatsoever. But I'm NOT successful. I want to be in the future, but I made a mistake and chose the wrong career to study which now is costing me time and money. He also told me how his sister (20F) got a good paying job and how he is so proud and how she will be such great example to our kid (I'm pregnant 26 weeks). And from this I also think maybe he doesn't really respect me much? Like success-wise.. then he often also calls me a doormat and he's right I kind of am.. and he then also said his sister doesn't take shit so she will be a good rolemodel.
I keep thinking why is he even with me. He says I'm his best friend and favorite company but I don't see much value in me I guess. I kind of feel I'm just company to him and if I really asked in depth what he respected or liked about me there wouldn't be many things.. I asked him once I think like a year ago and I remember he was somehow struggling to think of things. But then I don't want to "test" him and it also feels self centered to ask someone list off good qualities of mine..
Tl;dr I noticed fiance never asks me anything. Is this a sign he is not truly interested in me and I'm just an accessory? Also I feel he does not se me as a respectable person.
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2023.03.25 12:07 PhilosophicalFailure Lack of reaction to AI revolution

It seems like we're at a breakpoint in history, with huge economic and social changes awaiting humanity in a not so distant future as the impact of AI solidifies across all realms of human existence. Which makes me surprised at the relative silence and passivity of philosophers and theorists publishing anything substantial on this topic. There are no Marxs, no Foucaults, no Kants offering critique and analysis of the imminent socio-economical and existential threats facing humans. There is no one talking about what it means to be human whose work and lifelong skills are not needed now, no talk of how achieving socialism is vital now that the corporations ruling the world don't need us to work for them, and what happens to the working class as a result. Where are all the intellectuals?
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2023.03.25 12:07 mamadmetal Looking for room measurement microphone

I live in Iran and I could not find any room measurement mic to buy, I found one or two but their website is not really trustable so what alternatives I can go with? Does clip on mics works as well ? They are very cheap to get and apparently they are omni-directional, how about Chinese usb mics?
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2023.03.25 12:06 Bloodshot_15 Is this a good storyline if I was to start a RRP Insta? (Not doing YT videos again)

So I need to know if this storyline makes sense. If I was to start one, would it be interesting?
Basically: Lucas Bigfly, who is thought as a boy, but really female, is 22 year old retired equestrian who stopped eventing after losing her best and only eventing horse, A Lost But Found Star aka Star, to an fatal accident in the pasture. She decided eventing wasn’t it after that. What can she then do with her barn? She started a leasing barn. Not a lesson barn, but leasing. For those who want to ride, but can’t afford buying a horse. She was also an instructor, but the accident stopped her from that too. Now she owns a leasing barn with a few private horses that can’t be leased, that she uses trains in dressage, jumping and cross country to keep her riding up to beat and keep them in shape.
Does it makes sense? I’ll figure out everything if you guys like it, like horses that can be leased and such. I don’t wanna start one with this storyline if it doesn’t make sense.
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2023.03.25 12:06 Janee333 Here's a visualization tip that's saved me years going in the wrong direction with LOA!

It's called meditating into the vision. Most people try to think their way into the vision, but that's going in the wrong direction. That's what I used to do, too. What I thought was visulization was just me overthinking and trying to think my way there. Then I discovered my favourite LOA teacher and my life changed. He said that manifesting means revealing not creating - it's already done, there's nothing for us to create - and we can't think our way there. This way of viewing LOA has opened my eyes to seeing what was right in front of me - that it's already done. And how I do that is to first clear the blocks of thinking. First I meditate my way there and then the vision comes into view and I join with that. I meditate into the vision rather than trying to think my way there.
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2023.03.25 12:06 NRoszxO NK & the unspoken "Spoken" theories.

Almost 5 years later, & this case still haunts me. All the "elephants" that were actively ignored regarding NK. From her interviews with CBI as well as LE to all of the things that point directly to her, how she was not probed or investigated further just is mind-boggling. I've been going through the 1960 or more page discovery documents from the case on the Foul Play site as well as re-watching pretty much everything you could re-watch on this case. The reason why NK contacted LE in the first place, wasn't because she wanted to be a "good person & tell LE everything she knew". It was because she had been told by Anadarko that her affair with CW had been revealed to LE. That's when she came forward. For anyone who hasn't read the discovery/case files, I'd suggest you do so. NK deleted everything on her phone that had anything to do with CW. Yet she wasn't smart enough to know that just because you delete evidence off your phone doesn't mean that LE can't retrieve it through other means (such as contacting the phone carrier via a search warrant). Just the phone evidence, while I'm assuming is nothing more than quite circumstantial, is pretty damning in itself. Yet when CW was detained & proclaimed guilt, according to LE "it precluded any other need to continue the investigation further." In the discovery documents, it mentions that NK started conducting online searches for "SW, CW" as early as 2017. Way before the affair was supposed to have started. Yet those searches were debunked as typos & anomalies. NK stated that at first, she didn't know CW was married & still married at the time they met. Yet anyone who would do one online search of SW would be able to see that what CW was supposedly a still married man from the overwhelming social media presence that SW held on Facebook. NK phone only has ever pinged near & in Frederick twice. The time over that 4th of July weekend when CW brought NK over to the house he shared with his wife & the pregnant mother of his children, & 8/13 on the day of the murders at 6 something in the morning. Her phone pinged in Frederick on the day of the murders when SW was already home from AZ & supposedly during the time that SW was already k***ed by CW. NK did not live anywhere near Frederick, not near enough to ping off a cell tower from that area & the Anadarko building was not near Frederick either, at least not near enough where her phone would ping off of a cell tower. She lived in North Glen which was at least a 25 minute drive from the Watts' home. Why would her phone ping in that area if she did not have any type of involvement or at least have some knowledge that something was awry? Her googling of Amber Frey. Let's be clear. She is no Amber Frey. Amber Frey had no knowledge that SP was married, & Amber Frey actually came to the police of her own volition to aid in the investigation to tell LE everything she knew about SP. Amber Frey showed remorse for her own actions, even just for having an affair with a married man. NK was only remorseful because she worried about having to go in hiding because the whole world would hate her. Still 5 years later & she seems to have fallen off the face of the planet in some effort of self-preservation. She went to the police because she was snitched on. She attempted to delete every piece of information on her phone that included CW. Why would someone delete or attempt to delete everything if you had no reason to worry about also being implicated? The reasoning she gave to LE & to CBI was because "it was over & she just wanted to be done with everything that had to do with him". Something has just stayed with me about this case for years brewing in me the more I think about it. The lack of any further investigational work of NK considering all the major red flags about her. And just thinking of SW/CW/BW if she did have something to do with it doesn't sit right with my soul & I wish they would've taken the time to probe her further without dismissing that NK had any involvement just because CW pled guilty. I am happy that the disgusting filthy POS is now rotting away but I just can't shake these obvious "elephants in the room" regarding NK.
If anyone has any similar theories or maybe disagrees with my theory, I'd be interested to see your responses below.
\TLDR*-NK about possible, yet still unproven theory of any involvement. Some of the discovery from retrieval of her phone data shows some conflicting info despite LE not probing further into the investigation of NK. Specifically how her phone records place her in Frederick, CO on 8/13-the day of the murders although she lived 20+ minutes away from the Watts' house & Anadarko was also not near the Frederick area as well.*
(Again, this is all in theory as NK has been cleared in the case & not being investigated further for any involvement.)
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2023.03.25 12:06 fictionovernonfic Most beautiful plot?

Which novel do you think has beautiful plot ( i mean literally beautiful- you know after completing it you're like let me tell the whole world what a beautiful gem it is)? Kinda in reading slump nowadays, want some suggestions 😓😅
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2023.03.25 12:06 Far_Researcher_6045 AITA for not wanting my parents to meet my fiances mother?

I never liked my fiances mother. Neither does my fiance. Shes a terrible person. She used to abuse her quite a bit. Some examples are pushing her down the stairs when she was little, neglecting her when she was sick and throwing up and couldnt take care of herself, verbal abuse, ECT. Even when we announced our engagement at a family gathering , where it was my first time meeting some of her extended family, while everybody was happy for us her mother started shit talking us to everybody, went home angrily and didnt text us for two months because she's.. upset for some reason? I always thought she liked me enough, so I'm not really sure.
So yeah. She's a character. Shes also extremely passive aggressive. Shes kind of like an evil witch. Because of this, my fiance doesnt really want my parents meeting her quite yet. She likes my parents and my family, and she feels cloeer to them then i think she feels to her own mother, and i dont think shes comfortable sharing that part of her with my parents right now. Since she doesnt want my parents meeting her, i don't want them meeting her either, as I will always support her.
My mom isnt taking too kindly to this. She keeps asking me to meet her mother and i keep telling her no, not yet, just be patient, and i provide explanation as to why as well. But she just cant seem to accept it. So the other day when we were over at my parents for dinner, instead of asking me, she asked my fiance directly. My fiance is very non confrontational and sweet and doesnt easily say no to people, so she uncomfortably agreed and texted her own mother about it.
After we left, i texted my mother, upset, because i felt that she was overstepping the boundaries i had set, and she made my fiance uncomfortable even though she knew what was going on. Were now fighting over it and not really speaking to each other. I know she just wants to know more about my fiance and meet her family since we are getting married, but i feel as though this was unfair and callous, as well as selfish and she isnt thinking about how my fiance might feel about it.
So, give it to me straight, AITA? I want to know if I am being one. Thank you guys!
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2023.03.25 12:06 National_Wrap9783 When should I switch to back off Sets on Squat

Stats 27 y.o. male 5,6 190 lb. 25% bf
Diet 3500-4500 calories
Sleep Consistently sleeping 9+ hours
Here's my actual questions
  1. Should I incorporate back off sets on squats?
I'm doing 3 sets of 5 reps at 5 rm. 260x5x3
  1. Does it makes sense to add some weight to Chin-ups since I'm doing 6,5,5? Adding like 2-5 lb. then doing like 3x5.
In practical programming it recommends waiting until you can both do 3x10 and 3x15. Mark basically recommends waiting until you can do fifteen reps then changes his mind and says ten reps on each set.
The first question is rather important while the second is more of a "it depends/doesn't matter" question.
  1. Why am I not doing power cleans?
I'm not explosive and cannot rack them due to long forearms. For me I have a greater capacity to systemically load Chinups.
  1. What am I doing on Upper body lifts?
A friend of mine gave me a program that's a transition into being an intermediate.
1 single @+5 lb above 3x5 5x5 @85% of the single
Next adjustment would be microloading and doing triples with back off 5s.
I've seen guys do this and it works. One of the reasons it works is say on the press you start to have to handle heavier weights in the form of heavy singles.
Note what I'm doing is still a novice program because I'm still adding weight to 1 rm and 5x5 every session.
  1. Why do you make micro adjustments before stalling?
Because I don't want to stall and I would rather make slower progress then reset and try to get unstuck.
Also I've been working out every other day but I have longer sleep wake cycles due to being unemployed hence the 19 workouts in 45 days. I'm thinking of switching to Monday Wednesday Friday then Tuesday Thursday Saturday.
PR=Press, BP=Bench, SQ=Squat, DL=Deadlift, CH=Chinups
02/10 SQ 155x5x3 PR 85x5x3 DL 185x5
02/12 SQ 165x5x3 BP 185x5x3 DL 205x5
02/14 SQ 175x5x3 PR 100x5x3 DL 225x5
02/16 SQ 185x5x3 BP 190x5x3 DL 245x5
02/18 SQ 195x5x3 PR 105x5x3 DL 265x5
02/20 SQ 205x5x3 BP 195x5x3 DL 275x5
02/22 SQ 210x5x3 PR 110x5x3 DL 285x5
02/25 SQ 215x5x3 BP 200x5x3 DL 295x5
02/27 SQ 220x5x3 PR 115x5x3 DL 305x5
03/01 SQ 225x5x3 BP 205x5x3 DL 310x5
03/04 SQ 230x5x3 PR 120x5x3 DL 315x5
03/07 SQ 235x5x3 BP 210x5x3 CH 5,4,4
03/09 SQ 240x5x3 PR 125x5x3 DL 320x5
03/11 SQ 245x5x3 BP 225x5x3 CH 6,5,4
03/14 SQ 210x5x3 PR 130, 110x5x5 DL 325x5
03/16 SQ 250x5x3 BP 230, 195x5x5 CH 5,5,4
03/18 SQ 255x5x3 PR 135, 155x5x5 DL 330x5
03/21 SQ 215x5x3 BP 235, 200x5x5 CH 6,5,5
03/23 SQ 260x5x3 PR 140, 119x5x5 DL 335x5
In kg.
02/10 SQ 70x5x3 PR 39x5x3 DL 84x5
02/12 SQ 75x5x3 BP 83x5x3 DL 93x5
02/14 SQ 80x5x3 PR 46x5x3 DL 102x5
02/16 SQ 84x5x3 BP 86x5x3 DL 111x5
02/18 SQ 89x5x3 PR 48x5x3 DL 120x5
02/20 SQ 93x5x3 BP 89x5x3 DL 125x5
02/22 SQ 96x5x3 PR 50x5x3 DL 130x5
02/25 SQ 98x5x3 BP 91x5x3 DL 135x5
02/27 SQ 100x5x3 PR 52x5x3 DL 138x5
03/01 SQ 102x5x3 BP 93x5x3 DL 140x5
03/04 SQ 104.5x5x3 PR 55x5x3 DL 143x5
03/07 SQ 107x5x3 BP 95x5x3 CH 5,4,4
03/09 SQ 110x5x3 PR 57x5x3 DL 145x5
03/11 SQ 113x5x3 BP 102x5x3 CH 6,5,4
03/14 SQ 94x5x3 PR 60, 50x5x5 DL 147x5
03/16 SQ 115x5x3 BP 105, 88.5x5x5 CH 5,5,4
03/18 SQ 118x5x3 PR 62, 52x5x5 DL 150x5
03/21 SQ 96x5x5 BP 107, 91x5x5 CH 6,5,5
03/23 SQ 120x5x3 PR 65, 55x5x5 DL 152x5
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2023.03.25 12:05 Mutated_Zombie Thoughts on xchacha vs aes?

Hey so i see that the website recommends picocrypt which uses xchacha20 and its made me go on a little bit of a rabbit hole of xchacha and how it compares to aes. I've also noticed that xchacha is getting adopted very quickly; companies like google; nordpass etc are using it over aes. Does this mean aes is on its way out? Why would a person/company move a lot of their systems to this honestly brand new algorythm and does that mean we can expect an open standard for chacha soon? (I ask this bc a lot of xchacha systems don't seem to be compatible atm; some examples are hat.sh, picocrypt, dexios etc. What are your experiences with it? As it stands right now i'm using a combination of veracrypt for my disk drives and some hidden containers. While using picocrypt/dexios at the same time (ie encrypting files with both a veracrypt container and pico/dex so i have 2 options instead of 1.)
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2023.03.25 12:05 laughtale0 The infamous incident that will SHOCK the world. (SPOILER 1078+)

TL;DR: the Egghead incident that will shock the world is Kuma's memories being broadcasted to the whole world.
Aight, hear me out. The word SHOCK is used even in the Japanese. This is kinda unusual word to use in Japanese
The word shock reminds me to one of Kuma's move, Ursus Shock. Ursus Shock uses the kanji 熊の衝撃 (Kuma no shogeki) literally meaning Bear Impact. A bear that will impact the world, it's Kuma.
A lot people points out that Egghead looks like the Fuji TV broadcast building.
What if it's not a coincidence. Oda wanted Egghead to be the place where Kuma broadcast all his pain to the world.
Kuma broadcast will be a SHOCK to the entire world. This will be the infamous incident that happened in Egghead. Kuma's past being broadcasted will show the world the truth about the World Government. This will be the fire that start the world revolution. This will make the World Government make a move for their great cleansing, thus making them the big antagonist for the final arc.
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2023.03.25 12:05 thesmartdoctor2 Question

What does displaying mementoes at the stand on the terrace do? I only display the ones I like but idk if it does anything? Thanks!
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2023.03.25 12:04 Affectionate_Ad9872 About the All-Purpose Farming Tool

I’ve only read the Manga and watched the Anime.
The All-Purpose Farming Tool was known as a replica of the Holy Lance Gryme. That thing should be killing him but instead of doing that, it makes Hiraku feel more energetic because of his absurdly fast self recovery. He feels tired whenever he isn’t using the tool for work, does that mean the tool is simply overclocking his regeneration to the extreme since it should be killing him but he regenerates too fast to notice it?
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2023.03.25 12:04 AgentTrip I (24F) blew up at my parents (67M) (55F) for their treatment of my brother (26M), but I feel guilty.

TLDR at the bottom. So my (24F) brother (26M) is getting married in around a month's time to his fiancé of like 5ish years (25F). They're both such lovely handsome people and I'm thrilled for them both. Honestly their pre wedding photoshoot was so gorgeous.
The issue is my parents. My brother is going to be going joint surname with his fiancé for their wedding, to a double barrel, like Smith-Stone for instance rather than just Smith. My parents are really angry about this, and I think its more than they outwardly show. I will use Smith as the example for the rest of this.
Around this time last year they called me to moan about the name situation to me. I told them they were being childish and that my brother is an adult and if they want to do that, there is nothing wrong with it. I thought that was the end of it.
However over the past few months, my parents have been on my brother's case about the name. My dad (67M) has been sending my brother texts of supposed quotes and signing them off "your Grandfather, a Smith". He'd told my brother that his great Uncle is going to be really hurt about him "Giving up his name", and my brother responded that if he's that hurt he's welcome to come talk to him about it. My dad is one of 3 brothers, 3 uncles, and he's the only one with a son, and his perspective is his lineage is dying and he's upset by it.
My brother has been communicating these things that they've been saying to him over the months, but with the wedding drawing close its only gotten worse. I woke up this morning to a text from my brother saying that my mum (55F) had just gotten off the phone with him and told him quote: "You wanting to change your surname is so upsetting, I just can't get over it, I think that's why things changed for me."
My brother told me he now feels like less of a parents in our parents' eyes, and I'd just had enough. I'll transcript what I sent here.
Me: I'm incredibly disappointed in you and dad for how you've been treating *brother* about his wedding. Poor boy is so very upset. It's only a name, get over yourselves. My views on you both as parents have been damaged, but I imagine they're damaged beyond repair for *brother*.
Mum: This is all being blown way out of proportion. Of course we're happy for them. It maybe only a name for you but it means a lot to us that's all but it's his decision and we accept that but I'm allowed to feel a bit sad about it. That's an upsetting thing to say.
Me: If I changed my name upon marriage would you be upset? I chose to keep part of my partner's name would you be upset? Or if they took mine entirely? If I married a woman and took her name would you be upset? As these are all real scenarios that could happen. I'm not ranting because of my brother, I'm ranting for myself . I thought you and dad were more modern than that, you had this conversation with me almost a year ago and I'm shocked you're both still upset, how long are you going to be upset for?
She hasn't responded to my message and I'm worried I went a little bit too harsh on her. I also do believe though that she's not being truthful when she says that its been blown out of proportion due to the things my brother has been telling me over the months. My friends are worried that my parents are going to try something at the wedding, which is why I felt like I needed to have a word. Still, I guess I feel guilty for upsetting my mum. Was I too harsh, or did I do the right thing in defending my brother?
TL;DR: My parents are upset at my brother for wanting to take his fiancé's surname and become joint surname. They're upset that they're losing a lineage, and have been guilting him for months, so I told them off for it pretty harshly.
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2023.03.25 12:04 Top_Dust9057 New order M3s

About to order a M3 through company leasing. I wasn’t sure if it might be worth waiting with all the talk of the upcoming refresh to the model, and it got me thinking; when a model is refreshed, are buyers given notice of this, or does it just happen? Ie. Will people place orders expecting the current model but actually end up receiving the refreshed one? What happened when the range changed from the chrome to black trim, for example?
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2023.03.25 12:04 Bishwo-karma-2001 My anger issues is affecting my baby siser

I am 23(f) and have a sister who’s 5 at the moment. I love her more than my life. But since a year or so my anger issues has affected my sister. My parents adore and has pampered her alot. I do adore and love the most in the family. But i also try to make her understand things in a strict manner because I’m the only one she listens to and is afraid of. I try not to get angry at the little mistakes she does. Most of the time when i get angry its always when my parents are involved, when they try to tell me what and how i should be teaching, or doing things with her. And i end up getting very angry and hit my sister pretty badly. Sometimes causing her lip bleed, hand and cheeks swollen. I always regret it after I’m cool down and back to my senses. I never think of hitting her, but once my anger hits i get blinded by rage. It feels like someone else takes my body does stuff and leaves it. I am trying so hard to control it but i cant so i have decided to move another country away from my sister. To give her peace in her own house that i never had. I was bitten by my mom ever since i can remember. I always told myself i would never do this to my child or anyone but i ended up becoming one. So is it because of the anger from all those times that I’m now pouring it all on my sister or is there anything wrong with me. I need help to understand. Because all these things have really affected me as well i don’t want my sister to be sacred of me. I want her to love me and be around me like other sisters do. I don’t want to push her away. But i am getting out of control. I love her, i don’t want to lose her.
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2023.03.25 12:04 Buzilovescats Does this description work for a Queen of a kingdom who primarily uses nature magic?

Basically, the title is, I usually ask a friend about these things but she is busy so here it is, can you understand what Primrose looks like from this?

“You need to think quick,” Queen Primrose said, she was rather pretty, her wild black hair falling onto her shoulders, her black skin contrasting her navy blue eyes. Magical flowers decorated her hair, and even with her soft and sweet looks she still managed to dominate the room by sheer confidence alone. She reminded Buzirella more of nature than The Goddess Briar, Mother Earth herself and Buzirella had met Briar, she looked more like a lethal warrior than a soft-hearted nature goddess. Primrose Hyacinth, however, was spring personified, the flower tattoos on her arms made it look like nature literally grew up and down her body, and she was only ten years older than the girls, crowned at the mere age of sixteen, after the accidental death of her parents. Her face was kind and welcoming, and Buzirella felt more at home looking at her than when hugging her mother. “We need you,” Primrose had turned to Buzirella now. She blushed.

Also yes Buzirella does have a crush, but it goes nowhere though obv, Primrose is an adult, she is a minor.

ADDITIONAL INFO: Briar is the goddess of nature in my book, however, she is also the goddess of death & war.
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2023.03.25 12:04 Dapper_Flatworm4256 Where in 2023 why back track..

Here we are in the year 2023 just under 100 years ago 1924 the "racial integrity act" was adopted in Virginia. In other words any one who isn't white is deemed "colored" which all and all was disgusting and racist but let's not forget how many bumps and steps took place just to make a racist act pass which was used to treat "nonwhites" even worse because now they were pegged as colored. Something we still do today is look at people for their wealth,color, and political views. I'm skipping to 1967 but go ahead and check your history books if they still have real information in there otherwise get real books the internet is going to lie to you. Iin 67 they passed loving v Virginia which got rid of the criminalization of non white and white marriage's( I'm putting this how they put it than because we're currently about to repeat history) anyways 67 started the questioning of dumb acts created by only racist white men. Please remember that I can't stress this enough your history is written by white men don't fit a second think anything else. No one was allowed other than white men. Keep that in mind please remember that. So how in the world is anything going to be equal white people were afraid of colors. It wasn't even until 2002 that it was admitted that all that was a huge mistake among the Virginia state it caused heavy segregation and even more hate purposely pointing out their different and white's were and sadly still are afraid of that. They admitted that made the issue worse. Do you see that 2002 Here we currently are 2023 We've gone completely back in time and pathetically noticable to anyone with a brain and education. Why? That's what I want to know. This might not all be the way you guys think and that's good I'm asking everyone to say why they hate anyone who isn't white and see if while you're writing it...read and try and see how stupid you sound. We're all one. Stop this shit who are we 1923 old school low lives. Why do you think it's always non white people in trouble or about to lose THEIR RIGHTS. How sickening how would any of you like to be afraid because of the color of your skin your religion your life something you can't wipe off. White's suck I'm white I'm embarrassed I grew up around racist people I grew my own thoughts something no one tries anymore. Give me a valid reason for this hatred I'm talking hatred for ANYTHING THAT ISNT WHAT YOU CONSIDER WHITE AMERICA. It's impossible why? Because you're just repeating and all that means is your obviously sadly brain dead..
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